How does a parent teach a child respect?
Respect means that you accept somebody for who they are, even when they’re different from you or you don’t agree with them. Respect in your relationships builds feelings of trust, safety, and well-being. Respect doesn’t always come naturally – it is something you learn.
As we begin a new school year it is important that our students have an attitude of respect for their school building, their administrators, teachers, staff members, and fellow classmates. All students who are a part of Springfield Public Schools deserve respect and a safe space to learn and feel welcome.
You might be thinking how can I teach my child respect? As a parent, you are your child’s first and most important teacher. You are the one who will model what respect is. Explain to them that respect is shown not only in their behavior but also in their attitude toward others. “Make sure your children know that it’s not okay for anyone, including adults, to use disrespectful behavior”, says Lynn Louise Wonders, licensed therapist and child development expert.
The Golden Rule is a good place to start, “treat others as you would like them to treat you.” Respect cultivates empathy by encouraging children to consider the feelings, perspectives, and boundaries of others. It nurtures tolerance towards diverse backgrounds, cultures, and viewpoints. Likewise, when children learn to respect others, they are more likely to communicate effectively, cooperate, and collaborate with peers, teachers, and family members. Teach your child to value themselves and their abilities while recognizing the worth of others.
Respectful behavior acts as a deterrent to bullying, aggression, and conflict. When children understand the importance of treating others with dignity and kindness, instances of bullying and disrespectful behavior decrease, creating a more harmonious school environment.
Some Key Points to Remember:
- Lead by Example: Children learn by observing the behavior of adults around them. Model respectful conduct in your interactions with others, including children, peers, and members of the community.
- Set Clear Expectations: Establish clear expectations for respectful behavior at home and in social settings. Emphasize the importance of respectful behavior, such as listening, using polite language, and acknowledging others’ feelings.
- Celebrate Diversity: Celebrate a diversity of cultures, backgrounds, and experiences. Honoring the differences of others demonstrates a respectful attitude toward them.
- Provide Positive Reinforcement: Acknowledge and praise respectful behavior to reinforce its importance and encourage continued practice.
“Every human being, of whatever origin, of whatever station, deserves respect. We must each respect others even as we respect ourselves.” ―U. Thant
By Gwen Marshall
UniteNews Staff Writer
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